Hello Guys,
I need to say something today, it is not at all related to work, or career or business or any other such aspect of life related to success. Today only I want to convey a simple message to make people understand that how much the small things sometimes affect the people they love the most, to make them understand Change is good but for what?
You know the biggest complain of people in this world from a person they love or have in their life is that, “You are changed!!!”. The truth is nobody in this world is a person who never change specially talking about men, they are the most rigid creatures in the world, they are stubborn in case of their behavior and mentality but as Steve Harvey said Man changes but there is only one woman for which he change in his whole life, she is not his mother, his sister and even sometimes she is not his wife too. Man only changes to one woman and that is the only and true love of his life.
However, people think change is bad, they consider it as a bad situation but truth is change is not bad until you are hurting either your own self or someone you love. Mostly people what they do is, specially what a man do is he bury his rage, his anger, his arguments everything in his heart if the woman infront of him is the one he loves. Honestly, nobody can bind a man in any constraint but he will bind himself in all the constraints the woman put on him who he loves.
The best part of this is nobody else in the world can hurt that man except the words and behavior of that woman, he only think about his family and that woman, but the worst part is also that the smallest thing of that woman make him feel down, sometimes he himself explain himself but never show to the woman because he know it doesn’t make any sense if he will tell to her there will be chaos without any matter and most funniest part is the person who never loses in any argument suddenly accept his mistake and say you were right.
That is because of 2 reasons first is he was literally overthinking and second is he don’t want to explain anything because he don’t want that any of them get in rage, he knows he has to explain himself at the end in either situation if he tell to the woman or not and that is because he know he can’t shout or scold or argue with that woman he loves. This is because man knows she will not understand and that is because they are the people who thinks whatever they are thinking is always right and that is the only ultimate truth of the life, the interesting fact is this becomes worst when the culture of both of them is different because woman always feels like whatever she is doing is right according to her culture, if even man wants to explain that things doesn’t happen in his culture like that, this will again start an argument which again the man will lose because of the same scenario I just explained.
This is what makes the man feel so much down and at the end argument a woman only wins because the man is often afraid to lose her, can’t remain angry from her for long time and the most important reason is don’t want her woman to cry because this is the worst feeling for a man that the people he loves the most are having tears in their eyes because of him, so he just compromise with his own thoughts, feelings and everything after a while this leads to a point where man stop explaining anything stop sharing his feeling because he knows the result already and the only thing comes to his mind is at the end he is wrong and she is right, so leave it.
Honestly, myself don’t know any solution to this because I can suggest just for the cause of suggesting that the woman should listen to her man atleast and try to understand his lifestyle in which he is brought up in, and come out of your own mentality setup, you might be correct most of the time but you also should check why he is saying the thing he is saying because nothing is true universally, try to respect his words also atleast try to understand the reason he is saying that.
But honestly, I know this problem cannot be solved I just suggested for the cause of suggestion but they will do whatever they will feel right doesn’t matter what you say or others say, so let it be I just wanted to convey this to all as many times most of the people have this complain but can’t say to anyone, but there is one more truth if a man changes for you, and bind himself in your constraints believe it or not he will never leave you by his side, never cheat you and always keep trying to make you feel happy and special. So that is it for today I will keep share whatever I feel is right so let’s see what will come next till then hoping for the best and waiting for the rest…
“Everything and everyone change in life that is natural just keep in mind that the people you are changing for doesn’t get hurt by that change…”
