The Perfectionists…
Hello Guys,
Today was a great day and honestly from today I am feeling like I started working in the project assigned to me as today actually I got the perfect data, I was trying to make the DAG on the incomplete data, it was represented as multivariate data but was actually a univariate dataset that you will come to know as soon as you will start the EDA, so today I asked for a real dataset which I can work on with some more attributes atleast.
So, they provided me with the data and I am trying to work on that data and actually this data is what I was supposing as much I understood the work of my team, as if I need to predict state of anything I must look at all the factors that are directly or indirectly affecting it, so this data has all the possible factors it should have to make the predictions which I am trying to do.
So, I got 2 different datasets and I worked on both of them and I updated to my team head about the EDA I did today on it and rest I will continue tomorrow because sir who was guiding me was not available today, I told him about my today’s progress so he appreciated me and told to connect tomorrow, so that we can go further with the data, so I will connect with him today with both of the datasets and the EDA, I performed today.
Well, one thing I observed today basically the drawback of being a perfectionist, actually those who try to be or are the perfectionist they take everything in the perspective and in that problem is somethings happen which actually are not meant to think about everyone and everything, they try to do everything perfect and most of them are able to do it, that is why they are titled as perfectionist.
But the problem is sometimes their this attitude creates problem for themselves the worst part of it is they get panic very soon, as soon as the situation seems to be in the opposite direction it start to bother them and they start to get panic in that situation actually if they want to be perfect even they should be calm and think or search or solutions instead of getting panic because of the situations.
The second thing with these people is if you try to calm them and advice to find the solution calmly they actually thinks you don’t understand their situation and that is why are saying like that and it is obvious in the panic situation, so I just want to say to these people that being perfectionist is not bad but for being a perfect perfectionist try to be calm in the situations when it is the most difficult to be.
Well, the third problem is if you will explain this much to them they start to hide the problems with you because their nature is like they don’t want to bother anyone because of their problems and this is the problem which I am afraid of the most, because they only spoke their problem to limited people and if they start to hide that from them also, then they will just keep everything within them which is not at all good.
So, I am not saying you should forget to be perfectionist but just keep in mind there will be many situations you have to accept and many situation which seems to be impossible to tackle but they will have some solution, you just have to think for the solution calmly instead of being panic for no means. I myself also like to be perfect in all the situations but as much I know I don’t get panic easily and if I get a little bit I make myself calm.
So, that is all for today I haven’t focused this too anyone just a suggestion from my side because I have observed it, so I am just suggesting those who feels it for them, just try to implement it in their life if possible otherwise just enjoy the life, that is all for today let’s see what will happen in the future till then hoping for the best and waiting for the rest…
“Being calm in the situation when it is most difficult to be, make you perfect in being perfectionist…”
