Is that wrong…
Hello Guys,
Today I want to talk about a thing or I would say a mentality of mostly all Indian parents for now. Our parents in India has a mentality that there children are not ordinary humans they are holy persons comes directly from god’s home. Means expectation level is incredible they themselves can have as much bad habits as they can handle but there children should not have any one of them.
How is that freaking possible? Son of a lion always will be a lion and nobody can discard this rule. Habits passes through generations either bad or good or sometimes both. And how a person can be in this world without any bad habit no one at this time in this world is a god so how we can be free from bad habits.
Okay, some people (like me) controls themselves to not have any bad habit even we have some but atleast the thing where to show that we knows. So officially we don’t have any bad habit. But the expectations are not over yet, there children should be error free. Who is the person in this world who haven’t committed any mistakes. No one and literally no one can exist even without doing any mistake unless they are God.
And I don’t know one thing what is the problem in doing something new and different from people and specially family. One most poisonous people are people called relatives, not all relatives are like this but some are like who should you murder the first. Kind of shoot at sight feels inside the heart sometimes as soon as you see them shoot them problem over forever but it is as usual not possible.
These are the people who don’t even knows our condition and gives the advice for free either you have asked or not doesn’t matter, they just have to show you they are very much intelligent. And literally these are the people doesn’t know anything about the matter than also they have to jump in and give there advice and also force us to apply them. At that time I am like see you have given your advice which no one asked for but than also thank you and now with due respect just, get lost!
I can’t understand, is it wrong to live life like celebrities. We are trying hard as much as possible to get there but some ethics and values come infront at the peak time and we stops there. Because we are not free from our parents yet. I am not saying they are wrong but there strategies are worthless now days. Previously some sensitive words are not meant to use in public. But now everyone are using them freely. If we are frustrated why we just can’t use those words to throw our frustration out.
This is new era and in this new development phase we have to focus in new fields in which we know we can dominate as no one previously but every time we stops just because of some ethics and social values. Okay let’s consider we are not going in any new field we are sticking to old strategies but world is not following it. Education is of this era is not enough as earlier was. In education institute there also we know what is going on. Atleast we are not those freaking people who has no future who went in bullying students and had there name in there. We are so much good in front of them but the fact is no one will never be satisfied with me. I don’t know if I will have or not any children but if I had even if adopted at any point of time.
Atleast I will not bound him or her in any ethics. They will be free they can do what ever they want to. Just they should not break heart of anyone and trust of me else everything is considerable. I will have only 2 boundations on them try no one will ever becomes sad because of you and only thing that matters in the world to live is reputation just don’t do anything because of which it gets ruined. And the rest all is considerable. As I know many people who talks sugar coated but always hides poison behind it and people with bad language bad looks and bad dressing sense but always be there when you need them. So language doesn’t matters character does. Just you should know what and when to say. But it will be learnt with life’s experience.
“Reputation is the most expensive thing anyone has, it takes whole life as investment to build it and seconds to get ruined.”
