Some observations…
Hello Guys,
Today was not a great day but I got a relief today, actually today we went to doctor as I mentioned once I have Migraine, so doctor advised to get a CT Scan of brain so that we would be sure that their is no tissue damage in brain and the relief is everything is normal in the CT Scan but I was having a sever headache all day today.
So, we left for the CT Scan and doctor consultation almost at 10:30 A.M. came back home at almost 4:00 P.M, and my headache started at almost 12:30 or 1:00 P.M. and from then this headache continues even I am having little bit headache now also, however I slept after coming back to home but still headache isn’t over.
Well, because of this I was unable to study anything, well that I will continue from tomorrow, but I observed something today that is the value of deadlines not only in professional life but in personal life too, everything should have a deadline atleast you think about it as soon as possible, I know sometimes it creates stress, so keep it little bit flexible and choose a deadline with some buffer time, so that in case of emergency you can use that buffer time.
But as much as possible try to complete that in the first decided deadline only, and try to break it in many more subparts and assign particular deadline to those subparts individually too, this is the most efficient approach for living the life, it might sounds more professional thing but try it on your personal life not only in learning or academics but in every aspect of your life you will observe the positive changes in your life real soon.
The second thing is many times I have seen people to delay their important things just because of influence of other people, most commonly these other people are known as relatives, because they are the only people who have emotion al attachment with the person, so it is natural to get influence by them, I am not saying that every time they are wrong, but even if they are right I just prefer and recommend to listen to your heart with just 1 condition, while listening to your heart’s words don’t let your brain to speak in between.
Actually I am imposing this condition just because of the overthinking, I myself is a overthinker, so I know how it impact on your decision making it delays your decisions very much, once they allow their brain’s to speak in mid then they are not able to listen their heart, they start thinking of the situations that will come ahead if they took this decision, honestly most of the time they don’t even happen.
The other problem in this is the fact that if you don’t follow the advise of the relatives they start to behave like you have insulted them very much, but believe me once you took your decision and be stuck to it in all the situations, once you will achieve something those relatives themselves will appreciate you and behave like they always had faith in you and they knew you took a great decision, I have experience of this and not only 1 I have many of those experiences where, my relatives suggest me something and I just followed myself and once I achieve something they started giving examples of me.
One thing is for sure that decisions doesn’t totally depends on the situations, I am not saying it doesn’t even depend on it but not that much you just take your decision and once you are determined to stick on that decision you will definitely find a solution of that situation some how, you just have to be determined for your decision, well I can’t say anything pointing to anyone specifically because I don’t know their situations what they are going through but just try it once.
Well, I can just share my experience and advice according to that, obliviously this is my experience some people might have different experiences but I believe it is not important always to listen the people you always take advice from, sometimes just your heart is enough to decide many things, in my case most of the time, well that is all for today, once again I am mentioning this is just my experience which I shared, so let’s see what will happen in the future till then hoping for the best and waiting for the rest…
“Your heart is the biggest advisor for your life, just keep full faith in it’s decisions…”
